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If you’ve started to wonder whether Mom or Dad might need more help at home, you’re already doing something loving: thinking ahead. It can feel heavy, and it’s okay that it does.<\/p>\n

Here’s the short answer. Getting an aging parent’s documents in order comes down to three things: legal documents that let someone you trust act on their behalf, medical documents that spell out their wishes and let you talk to their doctors, and a clear picture of their finances. If you hire an in-home caregiver directly, your family also becomes a household employer, and that comes with its own paperwork. The best time to pull all of it together is now, while your parent can take part in every decision.<\/p>\n

Why do this before care is needed?<\/h2>\n

Most of these documents only work if your parent signs them while they can still understand and make their own decisions. If a health crisis comes first, the family may have to go to court for a guardianship or conservatorship, which takes time and money you’d much rather spend on care.<\/p>\n

There’s a gentler reason, too. Doing this together, before anything is urgent, means your parent’s own voice guides what happens next. That’s a gift to them and to you.<\/p>\n

Which legal documents does my parent need?<\/h2>\n

There are four to start with. The first is a durable financial power of attorney, which names someone (called the agent) to handle money, bills, and accounts. “Durable” means it stays in effect even if your parent can no longer make decisions. The second is a healthcare power of attorney, sometimes called a healthcare proxy, which names someone to make medical decisions if your parent can’t.<\/p>\n

Then there’s the will, and a trust if they have one. And don’t forget beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance. Those pass to whoever is named on the account, not through the will, so it’s worth checking that they’re current.<\/p>\n

Rules and forms vary by state, so an elder law attorney is the right person to draft or review all of this. While you’re there, ask about one detail almost nobody thinks of: if there’s any chance you’ll hire in-home help, make sure the financial power of attorney clearly lets the agent hire and pay household employees and handle tax matters for your parent. That language is what lets you sign payroll forms and file your parent’s household employment taxes later without running into roadblocks.<\/p>\n

What about medical records and finances?<\/h2>\n

On the medical side, your parent will want an advance directive (sometimes called a living will) that lays out their wishes for care. Add a HIPAA authorization, a short form that gives doctors permission to talk with you. Without it, even a devoted adult child can be kept out of the loop. It also helps to keep a current list of doctors, medications, allergies, and the pharmacy, along with copies of their Medicare, supplemental, and any long-term care insurance cards. The National Institute on Aging has a helpful checklist for getting your affairs in order<\/a> if you want something to work from.<\/p>\n

For finances, you don’t need to take anything over. You just need to know where things are. A simple list goes a long way:<\/p>\n